Every moment of your life is an expression (or lack of expression) of who you are.
Your energy and choices create your life regardless of who you are or the life you live.
So, begin with where you are.
What would you like to create?
Change the paradigm in which you live, the very rules in which you live by. If you want. Or play in the box you currently live in. Your worldview. Your perspectives. Be aware of your choices and explore new directions.
You are free to change jobs, change careers, change relationships. You are free to deepen your existing relationships or explore the relationship of all things.
What is it you truly want? It is important to begin with you. Your internal landscape. Your energy and state of being. Everything else will flow from there.